Pure bliss, simplicity, and happiness!

I find these blogs harder and harder to post because I no longer have to fake this life or happiness. I'm no longer sad and miserable. I have to actually find things to write about rather than have so much on my mind it flows through my fingers.
This is a good thing though. And I'll take this kind of a feeling over that one any day. 
Never, ever, and I mean EVER, settle.
It rhymes, it makes sense, just don't ever forget it.

You are not stuck. You are not a tree. You are not a building. You are a human. You deserve the exact life you've always dreamed of having. One little problem arises though when you chose to settle and well, stay. 
You may think your life will be over without that person, you have so much time and money and heart invested into that person, you only know that person and that life he has provided for you, how could you possibly give that up or even imagine your life with someone else?
Let me break it down to you like this. And the most simplest way I can. Ask yourself this: Are you happy? Do you love this person? Are you in love with this person? Does this person treat you right? And I ask you again, ARE YOU HAPPY?
Answer "no" to any of those and your answer is "yes" you're settling. 
This life is too pretty, too great, and too privileged to not enjoy it completely. 
You should still feel butterflies from your significant other, you should be so genuine that you smile at strangers, you should appreciate life's simplicity even on the hardest of days, you should know God from thanking him not because you're constantly begging Him for a change. You should be happy. It's just as simple as that. 
Before I found strength to get up and go I used to wonder all of the time if this was all there was to life. I used to wonder if this was as good as it gets. 
I am so THANKFUL to know firsthand what life is really about instead of being stuck, like a tree, settling for just okay and wondering.
Life is a gift. Growing old is a privilege denied to many. There's so many blessings in just being alive itself that you should never ever ever and I mean EVER settle for just any man. 
You need a prince charming. You need to know that fairytales aren't make-believe. You need to know what it's like to love, whole heartedly and be loved in return. You need to love life. And most importantly you need to be happy. Or as expected y'all, you need a Ryan!

Don't give up. And don't be impatient. It's a proven fact that the very thing you're looking for comes the second you stop looking.
Faith and TRUST is all it takes. 

Yours truly,  Ash xxxx